
When Loving Means Letting Go: Spiritual Discernment in Broken Family Relationships
Some decisions aren’t made with the mind or the heart — but with the spirit. Especially when dealing with broken family relationships marked by deep hurt, betrayal, or abandonment. Sometimes, the pain is so great that the heart starts making excuses: “Maybe it wasn’t their fault,” “Perhaps they’re sick or confused,” “What if I regret not speaking to them if something happens?” These questions may come from a sincere desire to heal — but without spiritual clarity, they can become an emotional trap. 1. The heart must be guarded “The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?” — Jeremiah 17:9 (NIV) When our heart longs to reconnect with someone who has wounded us, we must discern whether that desire comes from the Holy Spirit —…